Are you helping?

This is my favorite, “I just want to help people...” 🍿

And yet, when they try to “help” you, it sure feels an awful lot like they’re only interested in helping themselves. 👈

They’ve got a hidden agenda that’s no so hidden after all, is it?

The more they try to “help” people, the more frustrated they feel because they’re not reaching their own goals. 😡

Every new rejection layers on another level of self-doubt and digs deeper depths of disappointment.

People have a real simple test for whether or not you’re actually helping them...

“Do they believe you actually helped them?”

By the way, you don’t get to answer that question for them.

✌️ Mike